Katika ujumbe wake kwenye barua aliyomuandikia babayake amesema "You have no idea how happy I am with my life." yaani hujui ni kwa kiasi gani nufurahia maisha haya ninayoishi kwa sasa yaani yale ya ulesbian.
Aliongeza kuwa toka babaake atangaze dau simu nyingi sana zimekuwa zkipigwa usiku kutoka sehemu mbalimbali duniani kiasi cha yeye kuchukua uamuzi wa kutopokea simu yeyote kwa sasa inayopigwa na mwanaume.
Amesema pamoja na wazazi wake kukataa kuwatambulisha kwao mchumba ake wa kike lakini kamwe hatomwacha kwani raha anayoisikia akiwa naye hawezi kuvumilia aikose.
Stori zaidi hii hapo chini sema ni ngeli.
Just ask Hong Kong
businesswoman Gigi Chao, 34, who says she "didn't have time to be
shocked" when her father, real estate tycoon Cecil Chao, discovered her
lesbian marriage and then offered HK $1 billion ($128 million) to any
male suitor in the world who could effectively turn his daughter
straight.
Overnight, Gigi's phone was flooded with messages from suitors around the world -- attention she never wanted.
"There wasn't really an
opportunity to mope -- 'Oh, poor me, I got thrown out of the closet,'"
she says. "There were all these factors out of my control. I thought, I
have to be my own rock."
Two weeks ago, Chao defended her marriage with an open letter to her father, writing, "You have no idea how happy I am with my life." Her father dropped the dowry the next day.
Her parents still refuse
to welcome her lesbian partner. But by coming out, Gigi Chao has touched
off a society-wide conversation about the difficulties facing lesbian,
gay, bisexual, and transgender-identifying Hong Kongers as they try to
find acceptance within their own families.
"It's a belief that
coming out as gay is a blatant disrespect for your parents," says Chao,
speaking about Chinese culture. "But it's not that way at all. Most gay
people I know respect their parents very much."
Raised in a strict
family, with a tycoon father who made her enter university at 16 and an
actress mother who was a "perfectionist" about her daughter's
appearance, Chao says she learned from an early age to hold back parts
of herself, including her own emotions.
Chao recalls an instance when, as a teenager, she brought her girlfriend to her house.
"My mom... cried and
screamed and banged her head against a wall and said, 'I will never
accept this fact about you, and I'll never accept it 'til the day I
die.' So I just sort of sat there in silence, and took it all in," says
Chao.
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